When Stroke Struck: How Love and Family Supported Eddie

On November 2017, my husband Eddie suffered a stroke at home. I found him collapsed on the floor that evening and immediately called 995.

The paramedics confirmed it was a stroke and rushed him to the hospital. Overwhelmed and in tears, I called my sisters, who came quickly to support me and prepare me for Eddie’s long and uncertain road to recovery.

At home, I sat with my two sons to plan how we could care for Eddie. Balancing work and daily hospital visits was exhausting. One morning, Eddie broke down, expressing that he felt useless and wanted to end his life. His words crushed me, and I realized I had to support not just his physical recovery, but also his emotional healing.

I rallied my family—my sons spent more time with him, and my brother visited daily. Their presence slowly lifted Eddie’s spirits.

Eddie became more determined. He promised not to rely on a wheelchair, and with persistent effort, he began standing and walking again. Watching his progress brought me hope. When doctors said he could be discharged, I faced new questions: Who would cook, care for him, and accompany him to therapy? I decided to bring back our domestic helper, which eased caregiving but added financial strain.

Despite the strain emotionally, physically and financially, I was determined to support Eddie’s recovery. Family support, I learned, is vital.

Encouragement and motivation play key roles in a survivor’s journey. When survivors feel loved and supported, they gain strength, resilience and hope. With determination and a positive mindset, recovery is not only possible—it becomes achievable.